“Love isn’t a feeling; it’s a choice.” I’ve heard it countless times in various Catholic educational contexts: high school classrooms, RCIA, marriage preparation, etc. Is it helpful? Yes, and no. Without a broader education on the reality of love, especially when it comes to the love between men and women, I find it unrelatable. We are human. Sexual attraction, while not everything, isn’t nothing, either, when it comes to choosing a spouse. Being human means we are both body